きらっくです。
あなたの周りにはたくさんのひとがいると思います。
わたしも友人や職場のひとに恵まれています。
しかし、尊敬できる・してるひとはいますか？
わたしは哲学者である”ニーチェ”を尊敬しています。
ニーチェは１００年以上前の哲学者ですが、現代でも格言や名言集を目にするほどです。
たくさんある名言のなかから今回は
”初めの一歩はじぶんへの尊敬から”
という言葉についてわたしなりに解釈していきたいと思います。
結論
じぶんを尊敬できなければ、他人も尊敬できない
尊敬しているひとはいますか？
尊敬してるひとはいますか？
と冒頭で聞きましたがどうでしょうか。
もしいないと答えたかたは、じぶんはどういうひとになりたいかを考えてみてください。
もしいると答えたかたは、じぶん自身のことを尊敬できていますか？
わたしはまだ、完全にじぶんのことを尊敬することはできていません。
だからこそ、たくさん読書をして知識を身につけたり、歴史から知恵をもらうことで、じぶんのことを尊敬できるように努力しています。
ではニーチェはなぜ”初めの一歩はじぶんへの尊敬から”と残したのでしょうか。
じぶんのことを尊敬できないと
まずじぶんのことを尊敬できないと
- じぶんの行動や考えかたを縛ってしまう
- 悪い行いをしてしまう
となります。
もちろんあなたはどちらも嫌なはずです。
わたしも嫌です。
なぜなら、行動や考えかたを縛ってしまうことは、じぶんの可能性を縛っています。
またじぶんのことを尊敬できないということは、じぶんの行動や考えかたに自信をもてません。
なので、決断する時に縛られてしまうのです。
たとえばあなたの尊敬しているひとが、不正や悪行をしていたらどう思いますか？
またその不正や悪行に誘われたらあなたはどうしますか？
止めようとするのか、尊敬しているひとがやっていることだからと、一緒にやってしまいますか？
じぶんのことを尊敬できないひとは、流されやすくなります。
ところが、じぶんのことを尊敬できるひとは、ちゃんと断ることができます。
理由は簡単です。
あなたが誰かを尊敬しているように、あなたも誰かに尊敬されているのです。
そう考えると、まずじぶんのことを尊敬することで、誰かからも尊敬されている存在ということに気づくでしょう。
じぶんの嫌なことは、他人にもしない。
よって初めの一歩はじぶんへの尊敬からという教えが大切になるのです。
まずはじぶんのことを尊敬する。
つぎに、じぶんは尊敬されていると自覚する。
すると、じぶんの嫌な気持ちになることは相手も同じだと考え、行動するようになるということです。
一歩ふみだす
今までのじぶんを変えることは、怖いですし不安です。
わたしも一歩ふみだすことは、あなたと同じように怖いですし不安です。
そこで登場するコツが、”尊敬できるひとを見つけて真似をする”ことになります。
重要なポイントとして、そのひとの行動だけでなく、考えかたも一緒にコピーしましょう。
手順としては
- 尊敬できるひとを探す
- ひたすらそのひとのことを研究・観察する
- 行動や言葉遣いをマネする
- いつの間にか、そのひとと同じような言動をし始める
このような手順です。
相手を尊敬する気持ちは、相手を好きだという気持ちとおなじです。
たとえば恋愛だと、パートナーの好きな食べものを好きになったり、おなじ行動をするようになるのと一緒になります。
ところでわたしも、彼女がバレーをしていて一緒にバレーをしたり、以前は食べなかったものをいつの間にか好物になったりしていたなとふと思い出しました。
こんなふうに恋愛でたとえるとすごく簡単だと思いませんか？
ぜひ、わたしとともに一歩ふみだしてみましょう。
未来へ向けて
一歩ふみだせたあなたは、未来を確実に変化させています。
あなたの言動の変化によって、交友関係や職場関係も変化していくことでしょう。
もちろん、すべてのことに良し悪しあります。
しかし、一歩ふみだしたあなたは、じぶんのことを尊敬できるようになっているはずです。
わたしはまだ完全にじぶんを尊敬できていませんが、少しずつ変化していると感じています。
たとえば、職場では「きらっくさんはとても心が広いですね」や「落ち着きがあって賢そう」などじぶんの感じている印象よりも良いイメージをもたれます。
おそらく普段から読書をしていたり、他人の考えかたに対する許容度を大きくしているからだと思います。
じぶんのことを尊敬するだけで周囲からの印象も変わり
より一層じぶんのことを尊敬できるのです。
あなたもいまのじぶんから変わってみませんか？
まとめ
最後にまとめると、じぶんのことを尊敬することによって
- 縛られない行動や考えかたに変化
- 悪い行いをしなくなる
- 未来を良くできる可能性を秘めている
これだけのメリットがあります。
ぜひ、あなたの可能性を広げるためにも、じぶんのことを尊敬してください。
そして、未来をよりよいものにわたしと一緒に変えていきましょう。
最後までお読みいただきありがとうございます。
きょうもわたしはあなたと出会えて「運がいい」
今回参考にさせていただいた書籍はこちらです。
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